From the Mass. Pike:

• Take Exit 11 (Millbury, Rt. 122)
• Turn right onto Rt. 122 South
• Proceed a little over 2 miles, during which time
  • Rt. 140 will merge in from the left, when you see "Statewide Glass";
  • you will bear right to stay on 122
  • you will pass under an overpass,
  • you will pass a sign on the right for "Spruce Hill Farm"
  • Wheeler Road is the next right. (Stop & Shop on left means you've passed it!)
• Turn right on Wheeler Road.
• Follow Wheeler Road up the hill until you can see the end of Wheeler Road.
• you will then see the barn and its parking lot on the left.
  

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